Let's get real simple about being a "good person"
We all feel it — that intense, constant pressure to be a “good person.” It’s like an invisible force running through every culture, every family, and every friendship. You have this relentless inner voice — a kind of moral ledger — that insists you have to make your life count for more good than bad. Sounds healthy, right? But what if this universal quest to be “good” is actually a trap? It sends us scrambling for outside rules, like a religious or cultural checklist. We spend our energy desperately trying to tip the scales, and in the process, we burn ourselves out instead of finding true peace. Here’s the wild part: the gospel aggressively opposes this effort to be a good person and instead embraces the bad person. It’s flipped upside down from the way the world looks at the problem. But it’s the only hope any of us have. So, let’s get real simple about being a good person. You’ve probably been told your whole life that you should be trying harder, doing better, and cleaning up ...